I’ve been talking all last week about self-esteem and how it leads to our self-confidence (or lack there of).
Why is this so Important to me?
Because I see way too many women looking for outside things to make them feel whole. Whether it be their families, partners, jobs, social media, alcohol… the list is endless.
Listen, I get it, we all have needs. But are you getting your needs met in an empowering way or a disempowering way?
Are you trying to feel whole by something or someone, in turn giving all your power to that thing or person?
These circumstances can leave you feeling less than, not good enough, depressed, not being able to make decisions, etc.
Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely things that happen that are out of our control that feels like our esteem and confidence have taken a hit.
You always have a choice as to how you want to deal with it.
It might be hard at first, but doing something different isn’t going to kill you.
Staying stuck might just do that to your spirit.
No one has ever said “I met this girl last night… she lacks confidence, but I dig that!”
Men are attracted to confidence because there’s a certain aliveness that comes along with that!
No one can give you that, it’s something that comes within.
So ask yourself, have you been getting your needs met in an empowering or disempowering way?
Check out this quick video in regard to helping you out with your self-esteem piggy bank!
Be that girl that people talk about wanted what they got!
Because its in you, you just have to unleash that shit!
I want to hear from you, let me know in the comments how you’re going to boost yourself up this week!