The Cold Hard Truth About Why You're
Having Friction In Your Relationship
Warning: This content might seem harsh. That’s tough cookies to be honest, I am not here to make friends. I am here to help you stop being victimized from friction in your relationship and to help you get your needs met in a positive way. I am here to help you understand where the gap is between you and your partner having consistent, high-vibe communication. I am here so that you can move forward and have a healthy and happy relationship that you have probably given up on.
You must know that myself and many other couples are living and breathing truth that this is possible, so if you want to experience the same thing… I would strongly suggest that you read this article in its entirety, every word!
Before we continue...
I am being completely transparent, it's the way I live my life now. So let me tell you what I am working on with you.
There are 2 beliefs that you must have in order for this to work, for you and I to succeed.
Firstly, you must BELIEVE in ME. You must believe that I am real, trustworthy, credible. You must see you in me, or at least a part of you. I will CLAIM that I know things, have been through things, can help you. Then I will give you PROOF. Because Lord knows, I HAVE SEEN SOME SHIT!
Secondly, you must BELIEVE in YOURSELF. You must believe that you CAN! That you can take that first step, that you have the skills, energy, time, focus. I will lay out what YOU need to find in YOURSELF to make this all just work! You need to believe that you are CAPABLE of making the necessary changes in yourself.
Alright, let’s get this show on the road.
How many times do you leave a conversation frustrated thinking “They know me, they should know this bothers me”
“They should know what I wanted/like, why did they do that?”
The problem is that although our partners know us, they are NOT mind readers.
And just because you may put your partners needs ahead of your own at times, does not mean that you should expect they need to do the same.
You see, expectation is the root of all evil, especially in relationships.
The minute I hear myself say “well I guess I expected…”I simply just stop.
Expectations are resentments waiting to happen.
I got my answer.
I had an expectation that things would work out the way I wanted them to and when they didn’t, my inner child wants to have a freak out and wants attention.
At this point, it has nothing to do with my partner, it has everything to do with me not getting my way.
“this can lead to a lot of struggle or even unhealthy behaviors.”
The author speak about different expectations in this article. I know I was able to relate with a couple of them myself!
Let me show you how to break the expectation cycle.